Hi Dimba,
You are not along and many others are looking for answers for the same question. I agree with 10pips, but there are many more to add to his/her list.
I read once that becoming a good trader is like becoming a pilot, years of studies, exams and then again years of training. But you still face the risk of crashing on daily basis. You need to have skills, patience, ability to learn, discipline and so on simply to survive.
I am sorry, but I have to agree. My story is more or less similar to that of a pilot and even today I face the rick, which is of cause my reward!
Trading systems, specially automated ones, tips, gurus and so on. Just be careful, if it is that simple, everyone will be millionaires in few months. If it sounds too good to be true, its almost always is!
So IMHO, you should start from reading books. My favorite author is Benjamin Graham.