I agree the general gist of what Silent Trader is saying; namely that you need to take a view on the underlying. I would also add that (with options) you also need to take a view on Implied Volatility, as that will dictate whether you buy or sell an option given any directional view on the underlying.
Gareth has answered your question(s) far more eloquently than I ever could.
But just a few points on Time decay;
The flip side of time decay is Gamma. Perhaps the easiest way to think of Gamma is in terms of how much your Option will change in value for any given % move in the underlying. Time decay increases as expiry approaches, but so does Gamma. Time decay (theta) and Gamma both increase as expiry approaches. They are opposite sides of the same coin.
So if you want a big profit for your buck by short dated straddles, but you’ll pay for it in time decay, if you get it wrong. If you can’t stomach the time decay buy far dated straddles, but you’ll not profit as much given a big move in the underlying, though time decay will be more forgiving, if you get it wrong. It’s a trade-off.
Gamma scalping - Yes slippage is a factor, so you need a very liquid market. I use ESX options / Footise futures - typically roundtrip for 2 points including spread & Commission. Ideally you want lots of intra-day volatility. If you can make the daily rent (Theta) by delta hedging in the futures you're home and dry.
Good luck.