DionysusToast
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The mind plays interesting tricks on you sometimes. One thing that does tend to stick around are your failures. Whilst we do hear of famous people who just "tried, tried & tried again" and made it, there is evidence that failures mount up in the mind and impact our behaviour negatively.
Why then is it that anyone would set themselves such a lofty goal of retiring from an account of less than a 100 quid when there zero chance of them NOT failing. Are these people masochists?
You know how it is when you are young and a dreamer. You think up some scheme and get excited about the riches it will bring. You visualize yourself on the yaght, driving a lambo or whatever it is. You visualise these things, think positively and then...
Then you FAIL
Those lofty dreams shattered.
With wisdom later in life, you realize that the plan you had in place was not realistic. It wasn't that you failed where someone else would have succeeded - you just set impossible goals. You set out a plan for failure that God himself would have struggled with.
So why on earth are people starting these ridiculous journals building up silly expectations when the only sure thing is that they will come back down to earth with a bump and suffer when that happens?
Why is it that no-one starts a journal with the following title:
"$200 to $400 spreadbetting with low risk and good money management journal. Goal is to double the amount over 2 years so that I have a track record to get my dad and uncle to fund a proper account"
It's a bit more realistic, isn't it?
Come on kids.
Is it just that the title is too long?
Now - I'm off to the pub to spend that $56.24.
Why then is it that anyone would set themselves such a lofty goal of retiring from an account of less than a 100 quid when there zero chance of them NOT failing. Are these people masochists?
You know how it is when you are young and a dreamer. You think up some scheme and get excited about the riches it will bring. You visualize yourself on the yaght, driving a lambo or whatever it is. You visualise these things, think positively and then...
Then you FAIL
Those lofty dreams shattered.
With wisdom later in life, you realize that the plan you had in place was not realistic. It wasn't that you failed where someone else would have succeeded - you just set impossible goals. You set out a plan for failure that God himself would have struggled with.
So why on earth are people starting these ridiculous journals building up silly expectations when the only sure thing is that they will come back down to earth with a bump and suffer when that happens?
Why is it that no-one starts a journal with the following title:
"$200 to $400 spreadbetting with low risk and good money management journal. Goal is to double the amount over 2 years so that I have a track record to get my dad and uncle to fund a proper account"
It's a bit more realistic, isn't it?
Come on kids.
Is it just that the title is too long?
Now - I'm off to the pub to spend that $56.24.