Hi wheaters,
It sounds like you've moved over to forex because you see it is a safer market to trade after a "gap scare" you had in stocks. I have traded stocks for years and have never suffered any significant damage from price gapping or slippage. I don't say that to be arrogant - I say it to make the point that if you trade correctly, then gapping and slippage should never stop you profiting in the stock market over the long term.
Whilst gapping and slippage will be less of a problem in forex, this market comes with it's own problems of equivelent irritation that you will have to find ways to overcome it you decide you are sticking with forex as your chosen market. I understand your want to keep things simple by following just one or two currencies......it's easy to become overwhelmed by the thousands of stocks out there, but trust me - there are relatively easy ways to filter out only the best stocks - I do it every day from 10,000 stocks !
I would suggest that if you've blown two accounts, then you are taking far too much risk per trade relative to your total capital available. The more you risk, then the more often you have to be right on every single trade you take...........and that's putting massive pressure on yourself.
Many beginning traders that I coach have busted more than one trading account, and it's normally because they are risking far too much money on each trade.
Good Luck
Damian