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Have you ever had a moment where you realized the world is not what you thought it was? I mean a seriously big change in how your perceive the world and your relationship to it?
I think it was dbphoenix who in another thread talked about having to unlearn some things in order to trade properly. And although I'm probably going off on a tangent, and maybe didn't understand what he meant in that context, it got me to thinking.. It seems to me that the most useful skill a trader can have is the ability to perceive what *is* happening now - as opposed to what you think *ought* to be happening now, or what *should* happen next.
I've found that my ability to unlearn things increased exponentially after some unique events in my life:
#1 I came to doubt the religion I grew up with as a child. (well ok - it was really just a loooong downhill slide, but there were a few unique moments that stick out in my mind)
#2 As a result of my own stupid carelessness, I had a couple of close brushes with what should have been fatal accidents - and by pure luck, I walked away unscathed both times.
In each case,for a short time it was as though some kind of gate had opened and I was able to see all kinds of things in a new way. Then after a couple of days, I would go back to not much 'unlearning' until the next event. I remember those days as being full of turmoil and uncomfortableness - not sleeping too well either.
I've been wondering if there is a way to give yourself mini doses of those kinds of experiences, as an exercise in 'being alert' or being ready to see things in a new way. Socrates mentioned trying to observe yourself while watching TV.
Have you had any experience with anything like this? Did it help or hinder your ability to learn about trading?
JO
I think it was dbphoenix who in another thread talked about having to unlearn some things in order to trade properly. And although I'm probably going off on a tangent, and maybe didn't understand what he meant in that context, it got me to thinking.. It seems to me that the most useful skill a trader can have is the ability to perceive what *is* happening now - as opposed to what you think *ought* to be happening now, or what *should* happen next.
I've found that my ability to unlearn things increased exponentially after some unique events in my life:
#1 I came to doubt the religion I grew up with as a child. (well ok - it was really just a loooong downhill slide, but there were a few unique moments that stick out in my mind)
#2 As a result of my own stupid carelessness, I had a couple of close brushes with what should have been fatal accidents - and by pure luck, I walked away unscathed both times.
In each case,for a short time it was as though some kind of gate had opened and I was able to see all kinds of things in a new way. Then after a couple of days, I would go back to not much 'unlearning' until the next event. I remember those days as being full of turmoil and uncomfortableness - not sleeping too well either.
I've been wondering if there is a way to give yourself mini doses of those kinds of experiences, as an exercise in 'being alert' or being ready to see things in a new way. Socrates mentioned trying to observe yourself while watching TV.
Have you had any experience with anything like this? Did it help or hinder your ability to learn about trading?
JO
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