Pursuit Of Women

Hi

I ask as i'm pretty sure some of you guys probably are in/have been in a very similar situation....

I'm 30, single, & getting a bit bored of it.

I would like to meet a Miss Perfect!

I have pretty good cash generation prospects. To go with that, I am a pretty interesting person, physically fit, & people tell me i'm not bad looking.

I've been aware for some time, that for me, being single & trading alone from home are not a very good mix. Sure, there have been/are benefits, but it can be pretty lonely & uninspiring at times.

My opportunities for meeting birds are not great. All my previous/older friends are either married etc. & so i do not get many opportunities to meet birds on nights out etc. as was more the case a few years ago.

I go to a gym & do classes in the gym 3-4 times a week where there are girls who i get the opportunity to meet/talk to, but to be honest there aren't that many (at all ) that are my type. So the gym isn't proving to be/hasn't proved to be of any help in this aspect!!
Perhaps i need to stop going to that gym

I've come to the conclusion i need to be more pro-active about this. If you want a job doing properly, you need to do it for yourself.
Relying on others to go on nights out with, introductions from friends, member of the same gym class, working in the same company etc etc. are not a way of grasping the bull by the horns & getting the job done for yourself IMO.

My work hours are pretty short & flexible & i have the authority to make an executive board room decision to have the odd day off - which doesnt hurt.


Anyway, i'm looking for ideas/feedback on what you would do/did - if you were in this situation. Perhaps you are, perhaps you were, perhaps you wish you were, perhaps you're glad you're not - in this situation.

I kind of am not adverse to BSD's suggestion from a previous thread about supermarkets, coffee shops & the street etc. as potential meeting places - given the right cirumstance & opportunity . But its seems a bit random/awkward......

Anyway, (If in my shoes, or similar, perhaps you are/were??) how would you take advantage of this situation & make the most of it?

Cheers.

plenty of cash generation? Find a good pro and empty your tins, free of emotional baggage.

Got to go, the missus is nagging me.

UTB

Cheers UTB

knew i could rely on you to get the ball rolling & set the thread on the right path .

No problem. In return, if you do "get your balls rolling" and find a good pro, pm me.

UTB

PS - what's wrong with dating agencies?

Enrol at evening class:
Cookery
Gardening/Garden Design
Yoga/Pilates
Reiki
Dancing
Poetry

Just f****** do it!

I hope you have robust selection criteria, otherwise........................

Bingo! Gala Bingo,....loads of women there, all ages too.


Find a quiet boozer with some tasty barmaids, , barmaids are great for chatting up.


Or as Fibs has suggested, get a hobby/interest where you will be amongst the fairer sex (or not so fair, when you have to divorce them).

Nothing wrong with them i suppose, if you could find someone who is attractive & has similar interests & goals. TBH i didnt really know such agencies exiisted - i.e. as a walk in office type place. I've seen plenty of online dating website examples (such as faceparty ), but that looks a bit weak!


Surely meeting birds randomly isn't/shouldn't be too difficult.....all other animals manage quite easily.
For instance, on a saturday afternoon walking through town i might pass 3 birds who i think - oh yes! They might look in the other direction, but equally on other occasions you eyes will meet for a second or 2, a spark will ignite, and there you have a momentary opportunity. Likelihood is, one of you will feel awkward & look away, and the brief moment of possibility evaporates....

Ive done yoga, pilates & aerobics (at the gym) & not a sausage

An environment where it is just me, or a ltd number of blokes, and several/a group of young fit lassies would be fairly good though!