You sound like Xela to me, who was banned from ET.
One can always tell a novice miss-goody-2-shoes by their holy demeanor. 99.99% of the folk here are like this. To such folk its a terrible thing to be banned. But to the cats like Big Joe, its one of the best stats there is on Planet Earth. The stat of Scars. This is the only stat God looks at when one of us dumbschmucks asks for assistance. He skips all the miss-goody-2-shoes becasue he knows they never did the work nor did they suffer the pain and hardship or put themselves at risk. So he backhand swipes 'em all out the window.
But the one(s) with scars - he calls the Angels to get ready to send Help.
Imagine Xela, a female going up agsinst destriero with Baron's backing and even the cops trying to trip her up? Her crime? Stanford grad, super high-powered trader, super knowledgeable that made 'em look bad, especially destriero who could not tolerate a female of this class. Add to that, she's a looker.
So they bushwhacked her into banned for Life. That same day 8 females left ET for good. Place has become a male dominated ghetto. God made this Universe a 2-terminal Universe = Men & Women. Anything less its not natural and its outright discrimination. Big Joe don't tolerate this.