blancspa, you are being given bad advice, most of it from system traders...surprise...surprise...
Your efforts are wasted here New_Trader, and quite honestly I don't know why you bother, given all the stick you get.
Where you are today in trading is a reflection of where you are in life. It's all a package, you cannot choose the trading aspect of it to work unless you have sorted out your life first.
In your case, you have sorted out your life. Your trading now reflects that.
The people you tend to advise have no idea where they are, where they are going and what the purpose of it all is. In fact, they won't have a clue of what the hell I'm talking about.
Their package has so far followed totally a different route to yours. They won't get it. Don't waste your time.
And all that is God's wish. You shouldn't attempt to change the natural order. There is only one cheetah for every 100 antelopes, one human for million insects. There is one trader who knows the truth, for every 10,000 failures. All this is for good reasons. There is a design behind all this.
If the natural order gets upset, the ecology goes belly up and the world as we know it won't exist. Imagine if the majority or even a significant minority of traders in the market were to actually understand how the market works. Do you really think there would still be a viable market?
All these sticks you get is just a message. They don't want to hear you, and I'd agree. You shouldn't try.
