The Power of Belief
Amber is a well-adjusted, successful businesswoman and trader; however, she had considerable difficulties when she first began to trade. She earned a PhD in college and her nose-to-the-grindstone attitude helped her excel in business, but this attitude worked to her detriment in trading. She experienced herself wanting to trade the way she worked - endlessly, putting many deliverables on her plate at once, and barrelling through her workday. She said she liked her day this way because it gave her an edge, but when she used this same tactic in her trading, she had dismal results and it almost depleted all of her capital. She knew there had to be something driving her thinking and creating such depressing results. After working with her Thought Journal and reflecting deeply on this issue, she realized that when faced with doing things the easy way versus the hard or difficult way, she had chosen, time and time again, the difficult path. It had never occurred to her that this could be an issue, and during graduate school and business, things had always come out the way she wanted. One day, while speaking to her mentor about her trading, she remembered something her dad used to tell her: "Amber, you always do things the hard way." She also remembered becoming angry and hurt by his rebuke and realized she had, in fact, chosen to be that way throughout her life. She believed she had to do things the hard way because she believed that was her way. With the uncovering of that belief, she then resolved to change her way of thinking by reframing the belief into one that served her. Subsequently, she changed her behavior in order to get the results she wanted.
A belief is what you hold to be "true" and you "feel" a level of certainty about it. You become what you truly believe. Whatever your beliefs are, the first matter of business is to know them, especially those that impact upon your trading performance. As Amber did, you'll want to monitor your thoughts and what you're telling yourself as you track your trades in your Thought Journal (a log of your internal data – your thoughts, emotions and behaviors associated with your trades). In this way, you'll begin to identify the "limiting beliefs" that are driving your thoughts and emotions which in turn drive bad behavior.
Next, identify the type of beliefs that will serve you. For instance, let's consider developing a belief in excellence. A belief in excellence is at the core of success. Winning is about belief. If you believe you can't, you won't; if you believe you can, you will. If passion is fire, then emotionally connected beliefs are the logs that build that bonfire of focus on the goal.
Beliefs are also emotionally held thoughts based on your perceptions of events. Beliefs, therefore, can be created; you can presuppose they are true and you can try them on like clothes to see if they fit. If they work, and if you support them and develop them by talking to people who share this belief and surround yourself with reading material that verifies the strength of this new belief, it is likely that it will become a belief for you.
Beliefs influence all behavior. Here is a list of proactive beliefs:
- There are no failures, only lessons
- Every problem has a solution
- Creativity is at my core, and I can always try something different
- Mind and body are part of the same system
- Knowledge is not power, the application of knowledge is power
- All that I need to know is either inside of me or available to me
- If I am patient, there is always another trade
- I don't have to always participate in the market
- The market is made of people like me, therefore, if I can determine my poor decisions, I can take the other side of the trade with a high probability of being right
Beliefs are MAPS (mental models and paradigms – lenses through which you see the world) and serve to create views about self and others that you use to determine decisions. These beliefs and MAPS, if they do not serve you, are learned limitations that become "dyed-in-the-wool" and strongly held, often coming from authority figures and loved ones we incorporated into our maps.
Consider how wounding and destructive beliefs like the following can be:
- You're a dummy
- You'll never amount to much
- You deserve everything that you get
- You're a bad seed
- You're lazy
- People can't be trusted
- Rich people do bad things
- You've got to get all you can before it is taken away
- Only greedy people have money
You can create your own beliefs and rewrite your history. It is a matter of identifying the results you want and formulating the mindset aligned with getting those results.