
this thread has got huge lol.
bare with me , i have a veyr rich friend and i'd like to quote a part of the email he sent me :
''More important than trading is your lifestyle outside of trading; you can't have self-control, discipline and rational acts in trading without having it in life too. If you are in a good routine, healthy, and productive - Trading will fit in nicely and you can patiently develop techniques to produce money from the markets. If you are using the markets to escape/potentially escape your current lifestyle, then you should first work on improving your happiness/life.
One thing i've learnt from trading; is that, money won't do for you what you hoped - And in fact; humans/we need to work to enjoy our lifes. Having a job, that you enjoy, is more important than anything - Much more than the money. I've been doing some thinking and i am finished day-trading, money is great ofcourse... However; more importantly is your job.
Having a job that you enjoy doing, that is social, that actually produces a 'finished product' is important... People work, to have financial freedom, but financial freedom isn't as great as it sounds; having a purpose, working hard, being part of something is much more important.
My recommendation to you, as someone who has done and won @ trading to an end people wish for, is to think extremely carefully about what career you would ENJOY - forgetting money... Then work hard towards that end, and get that job that you will enjoy doing and enjoy being with the people you work with. Trading; is just a way of 'proving' yourself to everyone, but why bother? Once you've proven you can... Its pointless. Its an immature want, to get social recognition from others.
For example; something creative? Advertisement perhaps, working hard producing new ideas, debating concepts, seeing your finished advertisement and seeing how your campaigns do.
After reading this, consider whether you would like to do trading as a side; not an obsession, but something you patiently work on and don't put pressure on yourself about. Or a career; putting your self-worth and finance on the hope that you CAN. ''